Saturday, April 8, 2017

How come nobody talks about the rabbits?!

The drive from Tucson to Marfa was fairly uneventful most of the way, excepting the two Border Control stations I went through...that was interesting. I didn't  know these type of stops existed within the US borders, so the first one was more intimidating.  I saw the signs to slow down, and then noticed the station with armed guards and their accompanying K9. My mind flashed to the thought,  "Do I have any drugs in my car?!" I didn't, of course, I still have year old marijuana in my kitchen junk drawer at home. When it was my turn to stop at the front of the line, the K9 took a quick sniff and the officer asked, "Is anyone else in your car?," with a wave through when I said no. I drove away thinking I could have totally gotten away with smuggling people.

I finally reached Hwy 90, a two lane country highway (speed limit 75, woo-hoo!) that would take me the last 70 miles or so to my one night stay in Marfa. It was just as the sun was setting, and I pulled over twice just to snap a couple shots...it was really quite beautiful. What I didn't think about was how my drive would change when the sun went down...it got very VERY dark. Re-reading my airbnb hosts description later, I learned that it was actually the 5th darkest place on earth (whatever that means). Anyway, real dark. I had already slowed down a bit when I spotted a set of tall rabbit ears. Oh cute! A jackRabbit! As I got closer though, about 20 miles out, I saw another pair of ears, and another,  and then before I knew it, they were rushing out into the road all willy nilly like a bunch of jackAsses! Like goddamm Johnny Knoxville on some sick dare akin to Russian Roulette. I was cringing and on the verge of tears as these bunnies were pracially throwing themselves at my car, like a backwards game of whack-a-mole, where I was trying desperately not to hit them. In this twisted game of evolution,  I decided to employ a new method to intervene in jackrabbit survival; I started honking.  Every time I saw a pair of ears HONK! 2 pairs HONK HONK!! There was one really close call, but I didn't hear or feel a thump or a bump...I did however, run across no less than 10 carcasses, dodging them the same way I did their living brethren. With an oncoming streetlight as my beacon, I rolled into town traumatized, but at least, not a murderer.

I found my airbnb after a couple of wrong turns in that darkest dark, and tiredly lugged my bags in to orient myself and then quickly return to my car for a trip to view the Marfa Lights. Now, these lights, orbs (they have been described all sorts of ways that I'll add to), we're almost the entire reason I had travelled to this middle of nowhere Texas town....and something about a big art installation, again,  in the middle of nowhere. I had been warned that food would be hard to come by late, so I settled for a lunch able and a can of Miller High Life from the convenience store for my dinner at the viewing area.

I thought I was through the worst of the rabbit kamikazes, but it started over again as soon as I got through town on the same highway going the other direction... thankfully it was only 10 miles, so I honked and drove about 20 mph less than the speed limit the whole way there. I arrived just as I was finishing the S-town podcast, which was intermittently sad and disturbing, and in the end, made me cry. I'll tell you though,  I spotted those "illusive" Marfa Lights as soon as I got parked. At first, it was just one red, blinking light, so I thought it was some sort of runway or other location light....but then, the monotonous blinking turned into a more of a flicker, and then a little white light appeared, whose flicker was less often and more erractic. At some point, a third light came into play, another white flickering light, and the whole scene seemed to me very similar to watching fireflies...like they were communicating, playing with each other. The red light was most active, but not moving as much as the other two, kind of floating low across the desert sky. I sat there waiting for a supernatural feeling to overtake me, but really it just seemed a bit strange...plus nothing would feel more surreal that night than suicidal rabbits. I got a good gander at the stars in that black sky too, and instead of feeling insignificant like they can tend to make you feel, I felt so significant in that moment. I was there to bear witness to all that natural and unexplainable phenomena, me, just like it was there to be witnessed. We were all a part of what was happening.

The photos are of the following morning in Marfa: a stop at a converted barn breakfast and pastry spot call Buns n Roses, the cemetery across the street, and the famous Chianti Foundation, where I could only view the outdoor concrete installation without a tour appointment.









Thursday, April 6, 2017

Don't desert me now

A LOT to catch up on...See, the thing about being on the road (and also being the only driver) is that it's equal parts exhausting and rejuvenating. The possibility of excitement and newness around every bend, while having to maintain an intent focus to not go flying off a cliff. Or a mountain. Or into a cactus. Or just the guardrail.

I arrived in LA Monday evening to a warm reception from one of the two Stephanie Powell's I would hang out with in that city. The one I've known since middle school. The other is her neighbor from Chicago, who she only met because she accidentally got her paycheck in the mail. Now they're like besties. Anyway...That first night was an early one, and I woke up early the next morning to have a full day if LA experiences: breakfast at Roscoe's for their famous chicken and waffles, a walk along the Walk of Fame, and then a bike ride along The Strand from the Santa Monica Pier down to Marina Del Rey and back, which I should have enjoyed with sunscreen but I was so desperate for sun I forgot how incredibly pale I am... I met up with my wonderful hostess and her neighbor with the mostess, and the same name, and we had a fun night talking shit and drinking rosé at local bars.

Got on the road to Tucson the next morning, yesterday, and really just planned it as a stopover on my way to Marfa, so I was pleasantly surprised. At the suggestion of my Airbnb hosts, I ate Mexican food at Crossroads and order a green chili beef chimichanga...And a margarita, duh. Whoa mama. Apparently, the chimichanga was invented in Tucson, so like when in Rome or whatever, plus it's just really fun to say. Chimichanga. I would like that as a pet name...My little chimichanga. I digress...The room was sooooo cozy, and I passed out right after I brushed my teeth. I woke up at 6am. Are you kidding me?! I had planned to sleep in...It was so bright, I let myself toss and turn for a bit, but I had to give in to the sun. Looked up some local hikes, because it was too early to do anything else and found to gorgeous Sabino Canyon. I haven't been on a hike that beautiful in a long time, and that's saying something when you live in Oregon. Perhaps it was just that the landscape was so different and alien to me, that the awe of it hadn't yet been taken for granted...I finished up my hike, renewed again, and ran some errands before getting on the road to Marfa, TX. That's going to have to be To Be Continued tomorrow, because I'm tired and I assure you it's a story all it's own...























Monday, April 3, 2017

A beautiful morning in San Carlos, CA

I got a late start leaving Portland, I wanted to sleep more...But my 4 pm Candlelight Tour of the Oregon Caves finally dragged me out of bed. I finished packing, washed my face, and headed out the door with dishes undone.

I had a pleasant drive down I-5, and a fun jaunt with plenty of hairpin turns the last 45 minutes to the Caves Monument. I made it just in time to meet our tour guide in full character of an early "cave hunter," who handed me a candle lantern and explained that there weren't cameras when he was alive, so we couldn't use them either. About an hour of storytelling, lots of crouching and dodging large rocks stronger than my skull, and an exhilarating moment of complete sensory deprivation when we blew our candles out in "the heart of the cave," and I was off to my overnight stay in Gasquet, CA.

I got to Patrick's Creek Historical Lodge, which is indeed on the lovely Patrick's Creek, where Leo checked me in. Walking upstairs to my room, I encountered a boisterous middle-aged group there overnight to celebrate a birthday. After I got settled, I had a decent sirloin and scallop dinner, and then took a walk along the creek. I gathered some new rocks for my collection, and after a bit of relaxation in my room, decided to go downstairs for a night cap. Long story short, I got entangled in the birthday celebration and Leo insisted on refilling my Disaronno a couple times.

Surprisingly, I got on the road at 8am, rejuvenated by the Redwoods leading to Hwy 1 and the beautiful Pacific Coast. After my friend and San Fran host had to cancel our meetup, I decided to take the 1 as far as I could to replace human interaction with breathtaking views. Now, the 1 takes MUCH longer than I-5, or even the 101, as it quite literally follows the coastline with one wrong move sending you over the edge. I kind of got, well, stuck on it at some point. I had gone too far south and west for it to make up any time if I got back on one of the other two highways. So, tired and hungry, and annoyed with myself, I pushed on to San Francisco.

I decided to reward my aching body with a stay at the hip and swanky Phoenix Hotel, where they'd let me drink a beer in their heated pool. I slept in this morning:) Woke up to a gorgeous day, ripe for a trip further down the coast to LA (NOT on the 1 until Malibu), and my stinking low tire pressure alert came on. Thankfully, there was a Les Schwab in San Carlos, where I could get my car in shape and type up the last couple days events:)



Thursday, June 11, 2015

introductions

I really like the idea of a blog being a conversation among awesome and amazing ladies.

However, I'm not sure where to start.

I think I'll start with an introduction - that makes sense.  :). When I'm doing online-ish activities, I sometimes refer to myself as KEM.  (My initials - no big mystery!). I'm 32 years old and I live in northern Maryland with my wife, who's an organic vegetable farmer.  I work as a clinical social worker at a school for kids with special needs.  

These days, my writings tend to be about the following topics:

1. balance - I am always striving to keep myself and my life grounded and balanced.  I'm a person who sometimes goes to extremes, and I'm trying to stay focused on taking care of all aspects of myself - heart, soul, mind, and body.

2. the adoption wait - My wife and I are adopting a child!  We've been on a wait list for about 14 months, which has been extremely challenging for me.  Writing about this experience has been therapeutic for me.  

3. randomness - I love reading, listening to podcasts, and following the words and projects of individuals who inspire me.  I like to share things that make me happy with others.

Okay - this concludes my introduction.  Looking forward to hearing from others and seeing how this works.  :).